Monogamy: How it all started…maybe.

by Paige on February 12, 2013

Sergey Gavrilets, a professor and mathematician at the University of Tennessee, published an article in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. In his research, he uses mathematical modeling to predict the transition from promiscuity to pair-bonding in humans. Allow me to paraphrase:

A MAN WALKS INTO A BAR…

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This man wants to approach an attractive woman, but notices strapping young men standing around her, and begins to feel insecure. 

According to the article, herein lies the distinction between the alpha and the beta males that existed among our early human ancestors. The alphas dominated the mating scene. Promiscuous by nature, their evolutionary success was determined by the number of offspring they could produce. Alpha males had it all, mating with as many females as they wanted and, not having to provide for their young.

BETA MALE CAN’T COMPETE

Soon after walking into the bar, this man realizes he can’t put up a fair fight (imagine a room full of Brad Pitts).

He heads home in retreat. In these group societies the beta, weaker males were shut out of the mating game and their chances of procreation were marginal. So what’s a beta to do? The betas re-strategized. Rather than wasting their time competing against the brawny alpha males, they devised a plan to start investing in the females’ needs by providing food and other resources. The shift toward this “provisioning” was a pivotal transition for the betas.

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BETA GETS CRAFTY

The man goes home that evening and devises a plan to woo this woman. When he returns to the bar, he is bearing flowers and chocolates. He has the gifts delivered to her table with a note. Meanwhile, the Brad Pitts are too busy moving on to the next woman. The woman reads the note, looks up and sees the man across the room. They lock eyes, and the woman is now intrigued.

Once the lower-ranked males started providing food to the females, the females responded with sexual favors. Sounds a little like a modern day “sugar-daddy”. This idea of provisioning was a 2 for 1 deal for the betas. First, they were able to readily mate with the female and second, both the fertility of the female and chances of the offspring’s survival were greater.

IS SHE EVEN INTO HIM?

You might be asking, what determines whether the man and woman went home from the bar and had a “one-night soirée” versus committing to a long-term relationship? The paper suggests that the “female’s faithfulness co-evolved with the male’s provisioning.” Wherein the males exclusively chose to invest in the most faithful females of the group and the females evolved to have a selective preference for the most provisionary males. This is referred to as “pair-bonding”. I interpret this as our modern day monogamous relationship. This shift in mating strategy is proposed to have set the stage for family structure and paternal investment.

MONOGAMY IN MODERN DAY?

If this theory holds true, what are the implications of evolving from the weaker, beta males? Has this set society up for being less evolutionarily “fit”?  As the prevalence of chronic disease continues to rise, this hypothesis has to make you wonder: did we get the short end of the stick? Or better yet, maybe we’ve just become smarter?

Implications aside, to say that Gavrilets’ model is accurate in predicting the dating scene millions of years ago might be a stretch for some to consider. However, it does provide a new way of looking at how monogamy might have developed. If nothing else, Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and maybe we can learn a thing or two from the underdog in this story…flowers and chocolates will never fail.

Sources:

Gavritlets S. (2012). Proceedings of National Academy of Sciences: Human Origins and the transition from promiscuity to pair-bonding.

 

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Lola February 12, 2013 at 8:31 am

I applaud you for taking a stylistic risk with this blog post. For me it worked. I like how you interspersed the evolutionary theory from the research with a modern day story to draw in the reader with a relatable scenario.

I also find it interesting, given your piece, that many of my friends are looking for a mate who has a good job and makes a lot of money–sounds like modern day provisioning, huh?

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Paige February 12, 2013 at 4:19 pm

Thanks Lola!

Absolutely. I think society’s definition of provisioning is certainly more complex than just food and resources (i.e. “emotional” provisioning), but nonetheless it’s definitely still very present.

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Angela February 12, 2013 at 8:54 am

Interesting and very clear post! The inventiveness theme reminded me a lot of the cuttlefish mating tactics…
http://www.nature.com/news/2005/050117/full/news050117-9.html

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Paige February 12, 2013 at 3:53 pm

Wow, how cool is that!? 11:1 ratio is pretty intense–it’s amazing to learn about all of the adaptations that occur in order to survive and reproduce. Thanks for sharing!

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Karen February 12, 2013 at 3:45 pm

Funny, I remember thinking I would never starve if I married a man that could hunt and fish. I never thought it meant expensive hunting trips out west, fly fishing school, or expensive gore-tex outfits.

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Kiya February 13, 2013 at 5:18 am

Hi Paige,
Monogamy – endlessly fascinating topic. Thanks for bringing it up. I enjoyed your writing too!
I found it noteworthy that the original article your post is based on is entitled “Human origins and the transition from promiscuity to pair-bonding”. I think this is interesting because there are contrasting theories arguing that we never really made this transition. Dr Christopher Ryan researched this topic, I think I mentioned his work last year in another one of the delightful MTSG posts:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpN8K-WIIDM
Thought an alternative theory could be a useful addition,
Kiya

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Paige February 13, 2013 at 8:43 pm

Thank you for sharing that video! His perspective on the evolution of female sexuality is something I never thought about. Also interesting was the mention of whether we are truly moving away from primordial violence. Cooperation versus competition?

I will continue to ponder that one…

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ZebZ February 13, 2013 at 12:02 pm

The beta male success in leveling the playing field enhanced his success which progressed to monogamy thus resulting in more stable and rewardubg relationships – not necessarily because it’s natural. In nature reportedly one of the few monogamous animals, the goose mates for life – never mates again even if its mate is killed.”

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Paige February 13, 2013 at 8:12 pm

Interesting thought. Maybe the term natural should be redefined as being adaptive to different/changing conditions? As humans, we are really good at this.

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Kathy February 13, 2013 at 7:54 pm

Catching up, and glad I did. Brought a wonderful laugh to our evening, and a discussion of alpha and beta females, and what happens when 2 beta pair up.

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Paige February 13, 2013 at 8:33 pm

Glad you enjoyed the read, Kathy!

You bring up a point that I wish the researcher would have included in his model–he dismissed the group dynamics of the females. Both sexes were concerned with reproductive success, but each had their own strategy. I want to know which females tended to choose the betas over the alphas. Evolution of female choice…hmmm!

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Virginia February 13, 2013 at 8:43 pm

You have sewn good seed for producing interesting responses. Brad Pitt would surely thank you. Your blogs have been outstanding.

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Paige February 15, 2013 at 11:36 am

Thank you for the compliment Virginia! I have a new found respect for the art of blogging; it is certainly not an easy task.

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Charles Darwin February 14, 2013 at 11:27 am

I frown on your shenanigans.

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